Relationships


There are times in a relationship that one would say: " I no longer understand this feeling. That spark that turned to blaze no longer seems to be burning . I feel like it was never there, perhaps an illusion, something very far from reality. But I still cannot fathom the cause, could it be from my end?"
One thing we must understand is that when there is a problem involving two or more persons it definitely must have resulted from both parties or rather X,Y and Z parties. Just one party shouldn't be blamed for the misfortune in a relationship. There is something called action and reaction, consciously or unconsciously each party must have done something that sends a message and other party acts on the message that was sent. If someone calls you a fool, you would definitely react either by staying silent, saying or doing something. That's a reaction, now, that person may want to justify that you terribly annoyed him, that was why he called you a fool. Calling you a fool was the person's reaction, you offending him was your action.  
So you see, every action would be justified. But the ability to let go of some issues proves maturity, the way you tackle an issue, so that it does not escalate into a problem is a very rare virtue. 
Dealing with people is very complicated, one of the reasons for such could  be background differences involving cultural, religious, societal or personal perspective values. But in all you should  be able to adjust, learn to tolerate, do not be quick to judge and try to understand the  other person's view. Put yourself in their shoes, and you will see things clearer from their perspective.
The greatest man is one who gets angry but forgives, speaks the truth and yet loves, appreciate even in the smallest things and tolerate the excesses of others. 



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